Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit - Purple Haze Vibrating Dildo for Couples & Solo Play | Adult Sex Toy for Beginners | G-Spot Stimulation & Clitoral Pleasure | Perfect for Romantic Nights & Self-Care Moments

I have to say that even with some experience, I was hesitant to buy this kind of product online. Buying at a store is simply not an option for many reasons, so online is really the only option. I have had many years of experience in an alternative lifestyle (BDSM), so this is not exactly my first experience with these kinds of toys.First, I can say that right out of the box, which was securely wrapped in a non-transparent shrink wrap, and shipped in regular Amazon.com box, you could not tell what it was. Second, this is a very non-intimidating kit. The small dong is about the size of 2 #2 pencils side by side, so a good place to start for the top and bottom. The medium is bigger, and probably what the main attraction will be, which is about the size of a man's thumb, or around 3 #2 pencils. Third, while the straps for the harness are absurdly long, they can be trimmed, so it can accommodate many body types. Fourth, the included bullet vibrator might not be the best bang for your buck, but again for beginners won't know what is too strong, and honestly, starting small is better than starting too big. Fifth, the harness is expandable to allow even larger dongs (sold separately), so it can grow to meet your desires if you so choose. Finally, it is easy to clean, hypoallergenic, and durable, so this is not some "cheap" kit either.Overall, for introducing my partner into this lifestyle, it got them pretty excited. Since it was non-intimidating, they also were more comfortable than the more draconian looking ones. In the future, we might change what we use, but for now this was more than perfect, and there is an large dong we ordered just in case.Below is the 3rd size up in case you want to get that one to go with this great kit.Overall, I'm a big fan of this. As others have noted, the larger of the two toys is slightly bulbous at the end, but once you get past that it's great. The toys are smooth, have no weird smell (as many new toys do), are easy to clean, have no seams or ridges, and are just really well made. Plus the angle/curve on the larger one is perfect.The downside is with the harness, it's really not that good. If you have large thighs, the straps that go between your legs might be tight. With the strap material, it can lead to some serious chafing between the thighs. The straps run through the holes in the harness and connect directly to the ring around the toy - however, the holes are not reinforced, so when there snaps are undone, the straps can pull loose (I'm also concerned the holes on the harness might rip). The pocket for the vibrator is kind of poorly placed, depending on the woman's body, and so the vibe might not hit the appropriate areas (plus, it ends up behind the base of the toy, so vigorous use might cause some discomfort when the toy presses against the vibe, which then presses into the pelvis). Connecting the toy is kind of difficult as well: you can either fasten the straps to the ring, then slide the toy through the ring (which is difficult because the straps are fairly thick, and grab the toy pretty bad), or put the toy through the ring and then attempt to fasten the straps.Overall, I gave this 4 stars for the price and quality of the toys themselves. Would be 5 stars, but the harness is really not great.A slightly different kind of review...for those of you who are curious. Okay, so I purchased this as a Valentines present for US. We had been experimenting a bit, so I decided we might want to try one of these. Ladies, it takes a lot for your heterosexual man to offer himself up to you in a submissive manor...so, keep that in mind. I was excited when it arrived, but got the wind knocked out of my sails when her reaction was "less than excited." I had researched extensively, and thought she would appreciate the "empowerment" I was offering. Well, her lack of excitement resulted in it going back in the box and sliding it under the bed. There it stayed for nearly eight months. I mentioned it a few times over a couple month period, but did not get the reaction for which I was hoping...so, I kind of gave up. One day we were playing around and she asked about it. Short version- We got it out and she LOVED it!! Said she hadn't expected to feel that dominant...didn't think she would get much out of it. She said the bullet vibe in the pocket was amazing, but the feeling of dominance gave her an entirely different perspective that she THOROUGHLY enjoyed! It has added another "ass-pect" (sorry, couldn't help myself...) to our lovemaking. For ME, the prostate stimulation is amazing...but, seeing her in that "role" is very stimulating as well. For HER, she regrets not trying it sooner...but, is glad she opened her mind. So, guys, get over your homophobia- it doesn't make you gay to give yourself up to a beautiful, sexy woman. Ladies, keep an open mind...you may just find it to be one of your favorite sexual acts.This is a great starter kit for the beginner in pegging.The harness is very adjustable and comfortable for the wearer and the vibrator is a nice touch. The smooth texture of the Silks is great to start with.My only complaint for lack of a better word is the size of the Silk Small. It's just too small to be of much use.Personally, I would have designed the Silks with 1" diameter for small 1.25 for medium, and 1.5 for large to give a more gradual progression. Instead, they are .75" for small, 1" for medium and 1.5" for large. I found myself looking for a product in between the medium and large. I have since purchased the Leisure (1.25 x 7), which we haven't used as of yet.If I had to do it over again, I would have order the intermediate kit (medium and large) and supplemented with the Leisure. I also like the Leisure's slightly pointed tip, a design I think I would prefer in the Silks (especially the large) which I think will be better for insertion. I also like the length of the Leisure, which is much longer than the Silks when compared in scale to the diameter. The material and texture is exactly the same.Took me a long time to convince my wife to try this product.First time we used the smaller dong, this proved to be a bit too small in length and was fiddly and kept coming out. It was, however, still a pleasurable experienceSecond time despite a little trepidation, as it seemed quite large, we tried the larger dong. Going slowly and with plenty of lube insertion was not too difficult and we soon achieved a quite pleasurable rhythm.Even with the bullet vibe my wife did not gain any satisfaction. I on the other hand was pleasantly surprised at how smooth it moved and removal and reinsertion was not a problem if anything it was quite enjoyable.Would have given this product five stars if smaller dong had been a little longer.Looking forward to using this on a regular basisMost fun ever - fits well, - and can use other dildosOrdered purple, but got black one...Okay, premesso che ordinare un kit online probabilmente non è poi un buon punto di partenza per chi non ha mai tentato nulla in ambito strap-on, dopo alcuni utilizzi ho molti dubbi.Prima di tutto, gli strap-on sono veramente, veramente piccoli. Ma davvero tanto. Come kit può forse andar bene a chi si affaccia per la prima volta in vita sua non solo al mondo degli strap-on ma anche a quello del sesso anale/vaginale/quel diavolo che potete volerci fare, perché altrimenti non mi spiego il diametro di quello piccolo. Ma neanche di quello medio, in effetti. Per carità, le misure sono indicate, ma sono dell'opinione che leggerle non renda l'idea. Consiglio di prendere in mano un metro.E l'imbragatura... è abbastanza scomoda. Non per le dimensioni (regolabili senza difficoltà) ma per la qualità infima degli strap che scivolano col sudore e sono fastidiosi sulla pelle. In più i fermi in metallo che uniscono gli strap al pezzo centrale si piantano fastidiosamente nella pelle e a volte risultano quasi dolorosi. Inutile fare un'imbracatura che lascia l'accesso ad aree divertenti se poi per starci comod* devo mettere i pantaloni. Ah, quasi scordavo: il vibratore inserito nel suo taschino se solo uso un po' di forza almeno per me personalmente è massacrante, il che è un vero peccato perché non sarebbe male in sé l'idea.Per finire, per quanto il silicone dei dildo sia evidentemente di buona qualità, occhio: la forma neutra e liscia può facilmente non piacere.Sicuramente utile a capire un sacco di cose, con quel che l'ho pagato avrei certamente preferito capirle prima. Non dico che cambierei marca perché sicuramente c'è della qualità. Dico che magari cambierei prodotto, a costo di ordinarlo dal loro sito originale e pagarmi le tasse al confine perché sono americani.Les deux godes sont parfaits hormis qu'ils attirent la poussièreLe harnais est solide mais pas simple à mettre la 1ère fois un schéma aurait été utile